SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) - National Hope Network Toll-Free, 24/7 hotline for emergency suicide information Dave that was the ‘turning point’ for me. I have been ‘living’ since – since. I am still in this marriage because I wanted kids. I have kids now. Their father takes very good care of their every need, and mine too. I am just being careful so I am not caught one of these days. An affair may not be a good thing, however, it has made me look young, and my husband is pleased with my fresh looks. In his head, I am looking good for him. Sex is awesome in my matrimonial home, thanks to the outside experience. What he doesn’t know wouldn’t hurt him in any way.” I try thinking of disrespectful, cold attitudes in men, sometimes, as fun: because a woman can never know exactly what to expect with these ‘dogs’, so I am always ready for ANYTHING, and I take pride in my ability to f**k the hell outta them – as a form of my response when they’re almost getting pissed. You can ask my husband. When it comes to good sex, otse me soa, osore! Me tumi di no saaa, he begs me to stop! Make-up sex is always a fresh beginning in my mind, so I make sure it is indeed, a memorable one. And, that’s how I am with every other man I am seeing.” I found my husband, fully dressed in his swimsuit and shirt, seated in the kitchen just talking with Cindy. She gave me the evil eye like I was interrupting her conversation, but I asked my husband if he was ok. Before he answered, I told my husband we had to go because it was late and I was crashing. My husband pulled me to him, told me I had an irresistible glow about me, and just kissed me on my forehead. He looked over at Cindy and Tom and thanked them for a wonderful evening and told them he wanted to get me home and make me happy. I started to sob, I told him I was tired and out of it from the shots, and I held him tight not looking at all at Tom, who I could sense was behind us. My husband laughed and told me I was such a light weight, and he called a cab since neither of us was in the condition to drive. My husband was transferred to a different region to work. He visits home on weekends and on holidays. That’s the genesis of my affair. Distance caused it. I know he’s probably also warming his bed as I speak. I wouldn’t be bothered if he’s cheating. All I pray he does is to practice safe sex, because that’s what I am doing in his absence. I am currently in love with both men.”

I am Two (2) months old in my marriage, and I am already in an emotional affair with someone else. My husband is a good guy and all, but Dave, I am not that much into him anymore. I thought I did, that’s why I agreed to marry him. We had known each other for a few years – so I am a little bit surprised as to why I feel we are not even that connected intimately. We have very good sex and we do communicate so well. He loves me so dearly, but… I feel he’s the only one enjoying this marriage. I have practically fallen out of love with him. When we got to our room, I caught my wife pleasuring herself in the shower, which has never happened before. In fact, she’s pretty much given upon sex. I called her out on it and she mentioned that her massage included a happy ending and she had not cum so hard in years. Of course, the closest I got was having my butt cheeks massaged. I felt ripped off and all she said was “maybe next time.”I don’t think I could stay in character. “Hey you thief… whatcha doin trying to steal my heart? Come on over here so I can arrest you.” I’m laughing just thinking about it. I would still use the handcuffs though. confessions of This sounds ironic doesn’t it? It was remembering how good it felt that partly motivated me to renovate my libido. My wife and I were on vacation. I went to the indoor swimming pool in the hotel by myself. Not knowing my wife came to join me shortly after. The pool was pretty crowded in and around the pool. She came up next to me in the water and stood up almost chest high deep water. She was wearing a bikini bottom with a yellow top which was totally see through when wet. She had milky white breast with large areoa and half inch pointy **. Her breast were totally visible. I was surprised and very excited. She was awesome. I told her to swim by guys sitting at poolside which made it more exciting. She loved to show off her ** 😍 Beautiful face and awesome body and ** to die for. Her ** were fantastic. They poked though all her tops. She was super exciting and full of wonderful memories ❤

Like some crazy sex therapist just made that up to mess with people. But now I know better. I mean, I really really know better. We are building our own Five (5) bedroom house. My husband does not even know my son is not his child. My boyfriend and I are still putting two and two together until it’s time, and then I will leave my matrimonial home – going radio silent. I am just hoping he dies a natural death or I may have to figure something else out if he starts to prove stubborn. (There are numerous ways to kill a cat). I don’t love my husband, Dave, so I honestly do not have any sympathy left in my being for him or his feeling.” My 18 yr old wife came to the Army post where I was training. On w/e passes we stayed at a Travel Lodge for some much needed ** - for both of us! She was a hot little SoCal girl! A few years ago I was working as bartender in a hotel resort in Mexico. This family were on holiday, the mom was kinda hot petite blonde, midly fourty y/o, I noticed her looking at me for days but she was always with her husband and kids so I didn't approched her. I stand with a wonderful cluster of like-minded marriage bloggers in promoting godly marriages (Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.) I share their desire to empower marriages by reshaping prudish attitudes. Sexual intimacy is only one facet of a thriving marriage but it has too long been swept under the Christian community’s taboo rug.When they will be finished I don’t know and we are running out of money to do everything. My husband switches from day work to night shift every other week so his time working on the house is limited. These men find infidelity exciting. They like the secrets. The sneaking around. The sin. They will find stories like this, stories of married women deciding to take a risk and cheat, incredibly sexy.

Hi all…I am a married woman 33 years of age. I am from an elite, educated family, married to a nice gentleman with whom I had affair from my college days. He is a reader of the college I passed out, and my once-teacher. Professionally I am a teacher of philosophy in a girls’ highs school. We have a daughter age 11 who studies in a boarding school and comes home twice a year on vacations. We have been a family of good culture, education and status for which we all take pride, and earn good respect from the society. Even though it only happens once in a blue moon. The last occasion involved a wine tasting in a public venue. As he took a sip of Spain’s best, I whispered in his ear, “I’m not wearing any panties.” He nearly showered the whole establishment with red wine droplets. We downed the rest of the wine samples like shots. One time I walked out of the bedroom and was kind of cheerful (OK, maybe VERY cheerful). My kids said to their friend, “Yeah, they did it.” It was just matter of fact. There wasn’t even any giggling. They understand this is an important part of marriage. They also have been briefed on the negative effects of pornography and adultery from us and close friends, using both personal and biblical accounts. But it contained stuff like whipped cream and hot fudge, so it doesn’t really count. The list, that is. The sex counts. I’ve been married for a few months (not even up to a year). I guess I’m cheating on my husband because he didn’t really meet my expectation. Don’t ask me what that means – because I am still figuring it out myself. He’s not enough for me in everything. My present worry is how secure (financially) I am going to be, with him. I don’t know why I married him. I know, it sounds foolish, but that’s the truth, Dave. I still can’t name one reason why I married him. Of course, I love him, but what kind of love it is – I don’t know. The man I am having an affair with, gives me GHs 2, 500, every two weeks. It’s been Seven (7) months now, and he’s still wiring that amount into my account. According to him, I deserve it. I deserve to be pampered. He makes me happy, Dave. Sometimes, I wish I could give him a baby instead.”Hello Dave, I am 34 years old, and have been married for Five (5) years. I did trust my husband a lot but he betrayed that trust by cheating on me about Two (2) years ago. I was angry and hurt and disappointed. He showed remorse, apologized and then, cut things off with the other woman, and again, went ahead to take some other actions to make things right again with us. I did forgive him as I felt it was a mistake, and he was genuinely sorry. The problem is, it’s been very hard for me to forget about it, and I feel the only way to get over this is to cheat too. It’s been two years now, and I still have the urge to cheat too. In the past, I think my fear of sex kept me closed off from experiencing and enjoying anything sensual. Now I enjoy the feel of the wind, the beauty of peas growing in the garden, and the sound of rain in the middle of the night. Now I am sure he has been doing it for at least six months but the quilt has been over the bathroom door since last October. I can see when he is moving the quilt out of the way but never let on that I know he is watching me. I wanted to prove it to myself so badly I have placed the video camera under the blanket of my bedroom door aimed at the bathroom 10 times in the last few months. This new guy is divorced and understands it’s only to satisfy my sexual pleasure and inner peace. It has been good and very helpful to my general wellbeing. I am a very happy person now and even my husband has noticed. He talks about how I have become very understanding lately, and even compliments my looks each day. So yes, I am happily cheating and do not regret it. I hope my husband never finds out but if he does I’ll understand what ever actions he decides to take.” When I was still upset from a fight, sex was the last thing on my mind. Yet over the past couple of years, I have challenge myself to try sex after a disagreement. Wow, now I get it! Challenge yourself to try to see how God blesses you through his design for sex.